What is a Paradigm

Do you know what a paradigm is?   It is a limiting belief that you have about yourself. 

I have a paradigm.

So, do you.

Don’t feel bad if you are not sure if you have a paradigm(s), it’s not always obvious what our paradigms are, making it difficult to change or completely reframe your paradigms

I am sharing five common paradigms that affect how we live our lives and how we perceive the world around us.

You may relate to some of these paradigms:

1. Paradigm: I’m not confident, so I’m not going to do it.

When you’re facing something new, whether pursuing a goal, speaking in public, or changing careers, you make excuses for why you can’t or shouldn’t do it. And you look for excuses and circumstances to justify your excuses.

Don’t let fear or discomfort keep you from your future. Instead of letting it define or limit you, let it lift you by expecting a positive outcome.  Keeping a positive mindset is so important and I can coach you on this!

2. Paradigm: I’ll never be financially secure.

You and your family live comfortably, and you’ve accumulated some savings. However, a home, car, or medical emergency could do you in. And that worries you.

This was me!  Oh boy was it ever!

You sometimes get frustrated because even though you work hard, your income isn’t increasing enough to give you peace of mind and you’re afraid it never will and the money you desire will be yours.

3. Paradigm: I can’t.

I have used this in my life, and I know so many of us do!  This word should not be in your vocabulary   Some of us when thinking of a new business, new home, relationship, you are initially excited. But then, you think about it for and then you say, “I can’t do it.”

You justify your decision with reasons like it’s bad timing, I need more training, or I don’t have enough money.

You just have to choose and make the DECISION of what you want and get emotionally involved with the image by thinking and FEELING what it will be like to be that person as often as possible.

If any of this speaks to you, please schedule a free discover call with me and I can get you on the right path and have the road map you have been needing 

Shelley Semchison

Success Coach